It is one thing to demonstrate Unreasonable Hospitality, which involves seeking out ways to create extraordinary experiences and giving people more than they could ever possibly imagine or expect, but it is wholly another to experience it. Experiencing it - most especially when it comes as a gift or even better packaged in the unexpected - creates a virtuous cycle. You give more to get more, and so on and so forth. All boats rise with that tide (I’ve always loved that phrase, and I am such a believer in it!).